Boys vs Girls and Spending

Students between ages 15-21 feel unprepared to face the world. Only 20% of those saved over a $1,000 compared to older teens aged 16-18. According to a Charles Schwab survey, 50% of teenagers say they spend some of their money when they get paid and save the rest, 30% save the money in a bank account. 87% of teens say their parents are their main source of financial education.

According to the Boys & Girls Club of America, teenagers that learned about checking accounts and managing money were more likely to have opened a checking and savings account and to have a budget.

You may have heard that women are from venus and men are from mars. This is evident even among children especially with money. Girls lag behind in finances and with confidence to set and obtain financial goals. Girls show low confidence when asked about money and may avoid the subject or respond by saying “I don’t know, I guess so, or laugh”. Finances are not a high priority on girls’ agendas. They focus more on appearance and use money to go shopping or on entertainment.

The difference in how girls and boys view money may be related to how parents and educators teach girls and boys about money. Mothers may take girls to the grocery store to learn about how to comparison shop and budget for groceries. Fathers may take boys to buy a car. Both are good experiences but limit the knowledge that can be shared among each child. Boys and girls should be treated the same when discussing finances and life skills. If a child is not interested, parents must still provide the basic financial and life skills knowledge so later in life children will be able to apply it to their daily lives.

Girls are more emotional when it comes to spending and boys are more results oriented. Boys like to spend their money on big purchases like electronics, cars and technology. Girls like to spend money on things with little to no value like makeup, clothes, purses, shoes, etc. Many girls are taught to find a husband to take care of them which may prevent them from learning about finances, budgeting and investing because they will depend on their husband to have the knowledge.

Parents have to get girls and boys to change the way the think about money. Parents have to tell children If you want to own a home, go on vacations and live a certain lifestyle you have to save your money, invest and make good financial decisions. Boys and girls should be taught financial skills as soon as there are taught how to add and subject to ensure they become financially responsible adults.

Are You Financially Literate

According to the Federal Reserve, 43% of Americans live above their means. Many Americans live paycheck to paycheck and are living in either low-income or middle income households – some just one paycheck away from being homeless. If they lose their jobs, they have no backup plan, no savings and no safety net to help them through a financial crisis. Some school systems do not teach financial literacy because they don't feel it is a priority.

Unfortunately, students who are not financially literate grow up to be adults who are not financially literate. These same adults develop bad spending habits, have bad credit and file for bankruptcy or foreclosure. If financial literacy was taught in all the school systems in the country, many Americans would be in a better financial position because they would be empowered with knowledge to help them make good financial decisions and they would have the tools to recover from a financial crisis.

Here are some questions that will help you determine if you are financially literate. If you answer "no" to 5 or more questions, you may need to gain some knowledge about financial literacy and change your thoughts about money.

1. Do you have a bank account?
2. Do you frequently overdraw your bank account?
3. Do you have an emergency fund? Do you have at least 9-12 months of savings in an emergency fund?
4. Do you cash your checks at a check cashing store or liquor store?
5. Do you pay bills late?
6. Do you have a retirement account or do you invest?
7. Do you know what your current credit score is?
8. Do you write all ATM/debit card transactions in your check book?
9. Do you regularly compare your bank statement with your receipts?
10. Do you have a budget?
11. Do you know how much debt you owe?
12. Do you know your net worth?
13. Do you owe taxes or have you owed taxes in the past?

If you are not financially literate and don't the basic about personal finance I encourage you to read self-help books on personal finance that discuss budgeting, investing, retirement, saving, paying for college and taxes. There are also several websites available such as CNN Money, Yahoo Finance, Bankrate.com, MSN Money and morningstar.com. The more you know the more you grow. Money can generate wealth or generate debt, you make the choice.